Challenging behaviour
Challenging behaviour
What is challenging behaviour?
Challenging behaviour is when someone hurts themselves, or other people, or objects.
Someone with challenging behaviour might:
- hit other people or objects like a wall
- kick other people or objects like a door
- get very upset
- scream, shout, or cry
- throw things
- hurt themselves.
Challenging behaviour can make it difficult for someone to do every day things like making friends, going to the park, or learning at school.
Challenging behaviour can be caused by lots of different things. For example:
- feeling upset because you can not do something
- having a pain
- the people around you
- the room or space around you.
Challenging behaviour and learning disability
Challenging behaviour is not a learning disability A learning disability is to do with the way someone's brain works. It makes it harder for someone to learn, understand or do things. .
People with a learning disability are more likely to show challenging behaviour.
This is because people with a learning disability can find it hard to let other people know what they want, need or feel.
What should I do if my child has challenging behaviour?
If your child has challenging behaviour, it is a good idea to get help for them as soon as possible.
Talk to your doctor if you are worried because your child has challenging behaviour.
Your doctor might refer you to someone else for help.
Help
Some things you can do to try to help your child if they have challenging behaviour:
- Try to work out if the challenging behaviour often happens when they go to a certain Certain means you are sure about something. place, like a supermarket.
- Try to work out if the challenging behaviour often happens when they are with a certain person.
- Find ways to help your child tell people how they feel, or what they want.
- Help your child to feel happy, and spend time doing things they like.
- Help your child to find ways to cope when things do not go well. For example slowly breathing in and out, or counting before they do anything.
- Try to work out when your child might find things difficult and see if you can do something before they get upset.
It is good to have people who you can ask for help and support. For example, family, friends and professionals.
The Challenging Behaviour Foundation has lots of information and support.
You can also contact the Learning Disability helpline for more information:
- email Helpline@mencap.org.uk
- phone 0808 808 1111