Dealing with a loss can be hard for us all

It may be especially hard to explain to a person with a learning disability that a friend or family member has passed away.

Everyone's level of understanding can be different but if you're concerned about how to explain a death to someone with a learning disability here are some simple online resources which you may find helpful.

The following guides have been created by the HSC Bereavement Network, Northern Health and Social Care Trust, NHS Wales and Change. 

Talk to GriefChat

We know that no one can understand exactly what your loss feels like. But we do understand that it’s sometimes easier to talk to someone outside of your friends and family about the impact of bereavement on your life.

This is why we offer the GriefChat service.

By clicking on the GriefChat box in the bottom right corner of this page you can chat directly to a specially trained bereavement counsellor. You can remain anonymous or provide your name, whichever you prefer. See our easy read guide to using GriefChat here.

GriefChat is a completely free service and is available Monday to Friday, from 9am to 9pm (or by email out of these hours to info@griefchat.co.uk).

Please be aware, GriefChat is a third party service. The service is available to all Mencap website users over the age of 18. Read GriefChat’s Privacy Notice here.

Celebrate their life

Share memories and celebrate the life of your loved one with family and friends by setting up a Tribute Fund.

A Tribute Fund is an online tribute page that you can create and personalise in memory of the loved one you have lost. It’s a special way to remember them and can be filled with memories for years to come.

Find out more

Other ways to get the support you need

Contact the Learning Disability Helpline, our advice and support line, for guidance and information about what support we can offer you at this difficult time.

Or why not take a look at our online community? This is a place for parents, family and carers of people with a learning disability to share experiences, advice and support.

Contact the helpline Go to the online community

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