LGBTQ+ glossary for supporters

About this glossary of terms

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This glossary will help you, as a supporter or teacher, to better understand and explain the terms you hear in our You Being You video.

The following definitions are mostly from Stonewall. Their more comprehensive glossary, can be found on their website.

You can find further Easy Reads about LGBTQIA+ from Change UK.

Bi ( Bisexual )

Bi is an umbrella term used to describe a romantic and/or sexual orientation towards more than one gender .

 

Cisgender

Someone whose gender identity is the same as the sex they were assigned at birth.

 

Gay

A man who has a romantic and/or sexual orientation towards men. It is also a generic term for lesbian and gay sexuality - some women define themselves as gay rather than lesbian.

 

Gender identity

A persons innate sense of their own gender, whether male, female or something else (see non-binary below), which may or may not, correspond to the sex assigned at birth.

 

Gender expression

How a person chooses to outwardly express their gender, within the context of societal expectations of gender. A person who does not conform to societal expectations of gender may not, however, identify as trans.

 

Lesbian

A woman who has a romantic and/or sexual orientation towards women.

 

Orientation

An umbrella term describing a persons attraction to other people (sexual and/or romantic).

 

Non-binary

An umbrella term for people whose gender identity doesn't sit comfortably with 'man' or 'woman'. Non-binary identities are varied and can include people who identify with some aspects of binary identities, while others reject them entirely.

 

Pan (Pansexual)

A person whose romantic and/or sexual attraction towards others is not limited by sex or gender.

 

Heterosexual/"Straight"

A man who has a romantic and/or sexual orientation towards women or a woman who has a romantic and/or sexual orientation towards men.

 

Pronoun

Words we use to refer to peoples gender in conversation - for example, 'he' or 'she'. 

Some people may prefer others to refer t them in gender neutral language and use pronouns like 'they/their' and 'ze/zir'.

 

Trans

An umbrella term to describe people whose gender is not the same as, or does not sit comfortably with, the sex they were assigned at birth.

Trans people may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to), transgender , gender-queer (GQ), gender-fluid, non-binary, gender-variant, agender, bi-gender.

 

Queer

Queer is a word some people use if they don’t want to use Lesbian, Gay and other words. It can be used by anyone in the LGBTQIA+ community to describe themselves. In the past, the word queer was used to hurt people in the LGBTQIA+ community,  but now many people in the queer community use it proudly.

 

Ace

Ace is an umbrella term (this means a word that can mean more than one word). It includes people who have little to no interest in having a sexual relationship. People who are ace can sometimes want a romantic relationship, other people don’t want either.