Lack of sleep or difficulty sleeping in children can have a huge effect on both the child and their families.

Trouble sleeping can take different forms, such as insomnia, sleep schedule problems, nightmares and sleep terrors, bed-wetting and teeth grinding.

Without the right support, sleep problems can last a long time. However, many sleeping problems are behavioural, which mean they can be addressed.

We've come up with the following information to help you understand why your child is having trouble sleeping, as well as what things you can do to help.

Bedroom settings

The environment in which you sleep can have a huge effect on the quality of your sleep. Consider the following when setting up the environment in which your child will sleep:

  • Room temperature: Ensure that your child's bedroom isn't too hot or too cold (the ideal sleeping temperature is between 16 and 18 degrees celsius).
  • Calm surroundings: Bright colours and toys are often stimulating to children. Ensure that the bedroom is a restful area, and is calm for them to fall asleep in.
  • Unnecessary light: Blue light emitted from digital devices (iPads, laptops, mobile phones) blocks melatonin production and prevents sleep. Ensure that there are no screens on in the child's bedroom, and that they stop using devices a while before they are due to go to bed. Ensure that the bedroom is dark enough to encourage sleep.
  • Comfort: Ensure that your child's bed is comfortable and the clothes that they wear to bed are not causing them any discomfort.
  • Bedding: If your child is kicking bedding off them in the night, then waking through being cold, consider using a double duvet tucked under the mattress of a single bed. Also, think about what temperature you feel at night, if you're sleeping under a sheet, but your child has a heavy duvet, they could be getting too hot.
  • Noise: ​​Some children with sensory issues can be particularly sensitive to noise. The noise of an electric fan can mask other noises in your home which may help if other noises are an issue.
  • Bedtime routine: A routine before bedtime can help your child settle into sleep and have a more restful night.
  • Hunger: Ensure that your child is not hungry when they go to bed. If you need to move their meal time until later, a mid-afternoon snack can help.
  • Thirst: Children may use "I'm thirsty" as a distraction technique at bedtime. Monitor what your child is drinking during the day and offer them water at night time instead of juice or milk. If they're genuinely thirsty, they'll drink water.
  • Pain: Some disabled children cannot reposition themselves at night which can disrupt their sleep. If you think your child may be in pain you should seek advice from a medical professional.
  • Medication: Is your child is on any medication that may be affecting their sleep? Or do they have to be given medication during their sleep which may be disturbing them? Check with a medical practitioner if you're unsure.

"Sleeping - any tips greatly appreciated!"

Check out a thread on FamilyHub about tips around sleeping for children with a learning disability. 

There are loads of responses from parents and carers, sharing solutions that have worked for them.

Take a look

How to get the support you need

Contact Mencap Direct, our advice and support helpline, for guidance and information about what support we can offer you.

Or why not take a look at FamilyHub? This is our online community for parents and family carers of people with a learning disability, and is a place for sharing experiences, advice and support.

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