If you are starting a relationship with a new partner there are understandable concerns about when to tell them about your chid.
I was so nervous about telling my boyfriend about my daughter as I didn't want to scare him off. This had happened to a friend of mine and I didn't want it happening to me! I chose to tell him after a month as I wanted him to get to know me first then let him make the decision to continue the relationship or not. He did need time to think, but after asking to meet my daughter, I knew he was for keeps.