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Respite4Riven: Mother refused respite care for her daughter

Author: Alistair

Posted: 20th Jan 2011

This was Riven Vincent’s message on Mumsnet yesterday:

“Have asked ss (social services) to take dd (dear daughter) into care. We get 6 hours respite a week. They have refused a link family. They have refused extra respite. I cant cope.

I don’t know how to email Dave now he’s PM or I bloody would. I have called local MP Jack Lopresti too. I dont know what else to do.”

Riven Vincent’s distress over care for Celyn, her 6-year-old daughter with severe cerebral palsy, is what thousands of parents fear they will have to face as cuts to respite care begin to bite.

In the bitterest of ironies, Riven was one of the Mumsnet mums David Cameron met during his election campaign and he assured her that care for disabled children would be safe.

But Downing Street said yesterday that this was a “local council issue”.

David Congdon, head of campaigns and policy at Mencap, said: “As local authorities tighten belts we expect to hear more and more concerns from parents about respite care. Families and carers love the people they care for. They care for them willingly, but they need help to do so.

“Given that this money is available, there is no justification for cutting these services.”

Is respite care under threat in your area? Let us know what you think.

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Mandy
23 January 2011

We got a letter the other day saying that our residential respite facility is closing for a total of 5.5 weeks in the next financial year! they started cutting back last year by closing on all the bank holidays and at the end of August just at the end of the school holidays when families are on their knees! they also closed in the Christmas holidays! Why choose the school holidays it doesn’t make sense.

Mike Nuttall
20 January 2011

We’re told that the cuts are due to the previous administration (history)and are necessary for the next generation (future). What about the present? Must we become inhumane in the meantime? Where is the love?

We’re all in it together, are we? I’m not seeing much evidence of it.

Good luck, Riven.

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